Gareth,
Alan, Moira+I did NOT go to Paris for the weekend, but we did see Roger
Mitchell’s film, Le Week-End, at the Watershed… which featured a weekend in
Paris. It’s a film about a couple (Jim Broadbent and Lindsay Duncan are superb)
who are revisiting Paris for the first time since their honeymoon, 30 years ago…
and it explores the ups and downs of love in later life and, in this case, what
one might describe as a “sagging marriage” (although I might be prepared to
argue that point).
It’s funny,
it’s poignant and, by the reaction of the audience (the majority of whom could
closely identify with the film’s theme), it addressed some rather familiar “challenges”
of (very) long-term relationships.
I’ve
just read Peter Bradshaw’s review in The Guardian – which contained the
following description: “Le
Week-End is about an interesting subject, a subject that is the elephant in the
living room – or rather the elephant on the Saga holiday, the elephant on the
grey-pound world cruise, the elephant thoughtfully sucking the Werther's
Original – and that is the emotional and sexual lives of old or older people,
who generally don't get to appear much on movies or television. Meg and
Nick are finding that as they get older, mother nature has played a cruel trick
on them. As well as the persistent twinges and pains and agonies of physical
decay, they find that they are still poignantly interested in life, interested
enough to yearn for more, and to be therefore intensely dissatisfied with
themselves and with each other as time runs out, and to find they are still
sufficiently compos mentis for this to be almost intolerably painful”.
I have
to say, I found it a more hopeful film than Bradshaw obviously did - although,
after watching a trailer a week or so back, I wasn’t all that keen to see Le
Week-End (I felt there was a danger I was going to be encouraged to dance in
bars… or whatever! Perish the thought!).
In the event, I really enjoyed the
film and, although it contained some rather mystifying minor plot issues, came
away with a smile on my face… and Paris DID look lovely!