the name is how our middle daughter used to introduce me to some of her friends (sad but true!)
Sunday, March 23, 2025
february-march 2025 books…
Ascent (Chris Bonington): I hate heights, but love mountains and stories
about mountains. This is Bonington looking back on his extraordinary life and
his fierce ambition to climb mountains. I’d read one of his previous books (‘Everest
The Hard Way’) and found this book equally compelling. He writes well and seems
like a decent bloke, but also (perhaps it comes with the territory?) rather
selfish (he’s very much a ‘leader’), driven, hugely ambitious and with a
certain degree of arrogance… plus lots of determination, skill and drive. In
the ongoing quest to bag yet another “unclimbed peak”, several lives were lost
en route. The book (first published in 2017 and 420 pages long) is an open,
frank account of his adventures but also, towards the end, the devastating
fatal MND condition of his wife (of 52 years). Frankly, I felt sorry for his
wife - who was constantly ‘abandoned’ for months on end as Bonington dreamed up
(or was persuaded to join) another adventure. There’s a poignant passage where
his wife overhears a conversation he was having with another mountaineer about
an imminent ‘project’ – which she knew nothing about; needless to say, she was
deeply upset. Bonington described the next challenge as “unfinished business”,
but his sons were less forgiving: “But you promised.
You can’t go back. What about Mum?”… but he went anyway. There were times when
the book made me quite angry but, overall, I found it absolutely fascinating. Enchantment (Katherine May): I’d previously read May’s ‘Wintering’
book - ‘the power of rest and retreat in difficult times’ – which I found, at
times, both sensible and wise (without being mind-blowingly fresh or original).
A friend recommended this book (written during and immediately after the
pandemic lockdown) and its cover describes it as ‘reawakening wonder in an
exhausted age’. The cover also contains lots of endorsements –
‘life-affirming’… ‘the book your soul needs right now’…and such like. Well, I
hate to disappoint you but, although the book did contain a few interesting
observations, my overall impressions were: a) I didn’t think it even came close
to achieving its objective (‘reawakening wonder…?’); b) I didn’t think it was
well written or articulated; c) it contained an awful lot of ‘padding’/’waffle’
(it badly needed editing) d) I honestly feel I could have written a better book
(it was THAT bad!!). By the time I’d finished it, I felt both annoyed and
somewhat cheated… and that I’d wasted my time. I think my own personal
‘enchantment’ journey is much more alive than her own haphazard and somewhat
random journey into ‘reawakening wonder’. Not impressed, I’m afraid! Inside The Wave (Helen Dunmore): I’ve been re-reading Dunmore’s book of
poems as part of my early morning ritual (I think I must have previously read
the book 3 or 4 times… and continue to find her poetry enthralling. Dunmore died
in 2017, aged 65. This book of poems is her final collection… they’re concerned
with the borderline between the living and the dead. They relate to her interest
in landscape and the sea but, crucially, about her personal experience of dying
(she knew she was dying of cancer)… “To be alive is to be inside the wave,
always travelling until it breaks and is gone”. A lovely book that I’ll
continue to re-visit in the future. Dunmore and I shared two connections:
living in Bristol and loving St Ives. Small Things Like These (Claire Keegan):
Another re-read. This
is our next Storysmith bookgroup selection… and with a rather lovely twist – in
that we’ll also be watching the film at ‘20th Century Flicks’.The novel is a mere 114 pages
long, but is simply stunning… haunting and yet hopeful. It’s set in 1985, just
before Christmas, in an Irish town in County Wexford. The story’s main
character is Bill Furlong, a coal merchant with a wife and five daughters. As
an infant, Furlong and his mother were taken in by a wealthy Protestant woman
living just beyond the town. There’s a convent at the edge of town and,
attached to it, a training school and laundry where young women live and work.
There are all kinds of rumours about those in attendance… I think I’ll leave it
there (I would hate to spoil it for you). It’s a beautiful, breath-taking and
tender book that has remained with me over the past two years and will, no
doubt, continue to do so. The film, starring Cillian Murphy, does the book
total justice. Reasons To Be Cheerful (Nina Stibbe): It’s been a long time since I last
read a Stibbe book (8 years according to my blog) but, with all the horrible
stuff going on in the world, I felt I needed a book that made me laugh! Sadly,
I was a little disappointed. In this book, Lizzie Vogel (featuring the child
and then adolescent protagonist of Stibbe’s previous two novels, ‘Men at the
Helm’ and ‘Paradise Lodge’ – I’d only read the second one) has just turned 18
and moved out of the family home and has talked her way into a job as a dental
assistant, and is at last living by herself in the big city (Leicester), in a
flat above the surgery that comes with the job. Yes, the story might evoke
English provincial life in 1980, but the plot is absurd and, although Stibbe’s
humour is entertaining (most of the time), I ended up finding the novel just too
ridiculous for my liking. I absolutely loved Stibbe’s ‘Love Nina’ book - made
up of a series of letters written by writer Stibbe to her sister in the 80s,
while she was working as a nanny – but I’m afraid this book wasn’t for me.
Sorry.
Married to Moira with three daughters (Ruth, Hannah and Alice) and six grandchildren (Ursula, Jemima, Rosa, Dan, Iris and Mikey). Former architect and also worked with young people in education in recent years... now just a retired slacker.
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